Remember the Source of Your Strength

You must have an indomitable spirit that refuses to quit.

By Jennifer R. Farmer

As we end the year, some of us will set goals for the following year. We’ll vow to improve our social media presence, maybe grow our followers, or create better posts. Others will vow to boost sales and influence. Others still will vow to increase their salary, profitability, investments or financial position.

As we set about these goals, I hope we remember that sometimes, it is better to go slow to go fast. Overnight success isn’t always what it appears; there are people who look like they burst out overnight but a closer look shows they’ve been working on their craft for years. The reason I say it’s better to go slow to go fast, is because sometimes when we get desperate for progress, we lower our inhibitions and take on projects or partners that are shiny but risky. Everything that looks good, isn’t good.

I remind myself all the time that if it seems too good to be true, it likely is too good to be true. I tell myself, and will share with you, that ‘you do not have to take on risky partnerships, investments or projects for the sake of making it.’ We get to decide what ‘making it’ looks like for us based on who we are, where we come from, and what we ultimately want out of life.

Earlier this year, I wrote a post called “Take your time,” and I shared that hard work will eventually pay off, especially if we don’t cut corners. There is no need to rush. There is no need to lament that you are not where the next person is. Your race is yours to run, and you are where you are supposed to be at any given time.

Finally, as you set goals and plans, I hope you remember the source of your strength. And no, it’s not people. No one can make you successful. You have to do the work, and you must have a spirit that refuses to quit. If everyone leaves you – which likely won’t happen – but you continue to pursue your goals, you will eventually win.

There was a time in life when I thought my significance rested in the people with whom I was associated. Over time, I learned how damaging this thinking was. My destiny is not linked to an individual. Sure, people will come alongside to help us, but God provides the fuel for our hopes and dreams. Even if certain people walk away, when you pursue your purpose, God will send the right people for each season of your journey.

The true source of our strength is God. And each of us can tap into God’s strength without asking permission of other people. So as your soar, remember your source.